I know that so crazy, but good for him
But the problem about me is I need to renew my NP and go back to cop see my mom. My mom lung shutdown, she is breathing through a ventilator, she can't talk and in intensive care unit. The doctor gave up. I really want to see her, eventhough I'm scare to go back to my cop it has been 10 years. I never been so scare in my life like this bad. I've seen a lot of bad thing before I came here. So you know what I'm saying, I'm really scare, but I miss my mom so badly and want to see her. My husband think I'm crazy want to go to cop, but what else that I can do and I'm scare too. So about the citizenship, maybe can wait until I can come back here..if I can come back. I hope I can.
I feel you action and I am sorry about your mom. This is the story of all of us who came here because of all the problems we had ( it wasn't problem it was a huge disaster) I am the only member of the family here and my parents and the rest are back home.
If you go back you will feel fear all the way to over there and come back and if you don't go you will probably feel guilty. I feel your husband too, he has a point. He doesn't want you to get in trouble because you are sharing life with him and no one else. Are you the principal applicant when you came here?
I have always tried to show my point, if you had problem in COP there is no way (at least in your mind) to go back unless the government has changed. It is hard but it is the only way we can respect the rules specially respect to rules of a country which gave us protection.
I know all these talking won't be a remedy to your pain butI hope everything will get straight and you get your citizenship soon.
Hang in there a little more.
TK