You have reported about people being negative on this thread, which made a notification to have sent out to all moderators...and that's why I'm here. First of all, I don't see anyone being negative and bashing you; instead people are trying to get more information on your situation so that they could help you best. Secondly, being negative is not against the rules of this board so to report such thing.
You have already been told that nobody is bashing you. If you want to seek help from others on here, then be patience and try to be give as much as information possible about your situation. Most people are here to help you than being negative and bashing you...
Hope you will try to understand this....