You don't seem to think very highly of females If anybody is calm and collected, that's Sm1smom I took great care to use a gender neutral language, didn't even use words like "husband/wife", always used "spouse", didn't mention others by he/she as much as I can. I won't change that now. So keep wondering
Mom is calm and collective cause she's a mom already She needs to be!
Well, girls tend to use feelings and become emotional, while guys use straight logic and can seem cold. Not in all cases off course but it's quite common to see in daily life.
Off course in forums, you can only read, not hear, the way people talk and act.
AOS13 your name gives absolutely no clue of gender.
So I'm just gonna think of you as man on the left side, and woman on the right! -_- huh