Why is so silent? Any news form anybody who still in process or waiting for decision?
NOthing here...... I have been waiting decision since July 2010.
The waiting torture has been deminish since I started working on February 2011, it was very difficult to get a job at the beggining because I was trying to find a job according to my proffessional background, but soon I realized that what I really needed to find was food for the table!! and then Thank God I found something! I´m still looking for somthing better, but with all the hours that I have to work now to get a decent pay check, I´m not able to get enough time for the the job search and application process. But I will one day.
It's not easy to live like that, but my situation is a lot lot better than a year ago.
I was, like many of you guys, checking the mailbox at least twice a day hoping to find the good news, I was broke and counting pennies to see if I could go to the grocery store. It´s no easy at all to live like that. And Im sure most of you know waht im talking about.
I went several times to the asylum office trying to get infomation, or maybe tryng to put wheels to the application. But The answer was always the same: "Desicion has been made, you will received notification very soon,if you dont receive it in 3 weeks come back again"
I heard the same story for 5 months. Then I got tired, hopeless, deceptioned, and then I decided to no go back again. It was too much for me to handle. Those 3 weeks after the "update" of my case, I was constantly looking at the window waiting for the mailman, and my feelings after going through the mail to find NOTHING! were really bad.
For mental health, I decided to move on with my life, and to leave everything to God´s will. I´m not waiting for the mailman anymore. One day, the news will come. And wheatever it is, I will accept it. And I will thank God with all my heart, for every lesson receive it, for every tear, for all the bad moments, for the depression I once suffered, but most of all for the miracles I've seen.
I have seen God´s hands in my life, and His support has been enormous. That is Priceless. That is more more more important than a positive desicion on my case!
I lost almost a year of my life in this process, plus the bad times I went through during the crisis I lived in my country .
And that was enough.
I´m very happy to hear so much good news for several members in this forum, specially Mr Bird, because we started this process almost at the same time. We shared our worries and doubts in this forum many times.
I cant imagine the happinness !! hope one day I can also share that with you guys!
DEsicion will come, when it has to come.
God is never early, never late. He is always ON TIME!
God bless you all!