MarineWife
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I know this sounds very lax but I'm waiting until the holidays are over to really start prepping. However, last week I printed 132 photos (Walgreens) and this week I sent 3 orders to be printed (Order #1: 129 photos, Order #2: 53 photos and Order #3: 50 photos. I've decided to make three albums. One of before marriage pics, one of wedding pics (we had a civil courthouse ceremony (City Hall NY) but we had a professional photographer and we went to this garden after and took pics) and the last album of after marriage photos.
As for documents we don't have a lot except one joint bank account (and we use that for every single thing so we will print out the statements or ask bank to send us copies), and he has me on his life insurance. As for the lease, I am listed as a resident in this apartment but 'm not on the lease itself because we got this apartment based on a military program and since he is the serviceman, all of it had to be in his name. I will get a letter from the housing office to say that we both live here and I'm always around basically because any maintenance problems etc I am the one who deals with it (contacts them etc or I'm here when they come to fix the problem (let them in) and I walk the rent check over to them every month. (Not sure if that would help). He had his car/insurance before we met so his names are on those and because the apartment is in his name (military program), the utilities are in his name as well.
So basically that's all we have
- Loads of photos (with both of our families and a progression)
- Joint checking and savings account
- Life insurance with me as beneficiary
- Same address (me listed as resident on lease)
Now that I've written them out, they surely don't sound like a lot. Our marriage honestly is in good faith. I don't know what else we can or should do to prove this. Since I am out of status, I am definitely limited as to having utilities etc in my name (even though I have a social security number, I had lost my card)
I know this sounds very lax but I'm waiting until the holidays are over to really start prepping. However, last week I printed 132 photos (Walgreens) and this week I sent 3 orders to be printed (Order #1: 129 photos, Order #2: 53 photos and Order #3: 50 photos. I've decided to make three albums. One of before marriage pics, one of wedding pics (we had a civil courthouse ceremony (City Hall NY) but we had a professional photographer and we went to this garden after and took pics) and the last album of after marriage photos.
As for documents we don't have a lot except one joint bank account (and we use that for every single thing so we will print out the statements or ask bank to send us copies), and he has me on his life insurance. As for the lease, I am listed as a resident in this apartment but 'm not on the lease itself because we got this apartment based on a military program and since he is the serviceman, all of it had to be in his name. I will get a letter from the housing office to say that we both live here and I'm always around basically because any maintenance problems etc I am the one who deals with it (contacts them etc or I'm here when they come to fix the problem (let them in) and I walk the rent check over to them every month. (Not sure if that would help). He had his car/insurance before we met so his names are on those and because the apartment is in his name (military program), the utilities are in his name as well.
So basically that's all we have
- Loads of photos (with both of our families and a progression)
- Joint checking and savings account
- Life insurance with me as beneficiary
- Same address (me listed as resident on lease)
Now that I've written them out, they surely don't sound like a lot. Our marriage honestly is in good faith. I don't know what else we can or should do to prove this. Since I am out of status, I am definitely limited as to having utilities etc in my name (even though I have a social security number, I had lost my card)
