I think marinewife started the heat. She could have stated her point in a polite way. The tone on her message seemed as if she was attaching Lazhy.
She was definitely attacking me. She confirmed that herself. @ HossDelgado, you were caught by her tactic....threatening she's gonna leave the forum, so people can entreat her to stay. Really, I dont have problem with anyone...but I dont react fine to threat, criticism, or attacks. If she wasn't rude, I would have been nice to her. You dont have to take side, bcos that wouldn't make anything better.... Take a look at sweet15's post, that is a better way to approach/resolve issues.