Hello everyone,
First, I apologize for posting this here, as I know this forum is meant for questions. But at this point, I'm feeling really frustrated and just needed to share my thoughts with people who might be in a similar situation and understand what I'm going through. This is more of a therapeutic outlet for me.
My wife and I were really hopeful to receive our green cards, but unfortunately, we didn't. My wife has an elderly mother, and she was looking forward to visiting her, but now, due to our student visas expiring, we won't be able to visit her for at least three or four more years. It's been hard to come to terms with this.
I know there was always the possibility of not receiving green card, but a friend of mine, who shares my nationality and had the same case number as me, was able to get his green card last year. I understand that every case is different, but seeing someone in an identical situation receive theirs while we are denied is extremely discouraging. I know others from my country who filed after me, received RFEs, and still got their green cards, while we are left in the dark.
I’ve reached a point where I’m questioning everything, even my faith. I no longer believe in God because they didn’t help me when I needed it most. This green card means so much to us, and I can't understand why things have turned out this way. Why us? Why has our case taken so long? I don’t know anymore, and it’s exhausting not having answers. My wife was holding onto hope until September 30th, but now ...
I'm sharing this because I know many of you might understand how much this process takes out of you emotionally and financially. I feel alone in this struggle, and sometimes it feels like no one else really gets it. Thank you for letting me vent here.