Dependence on GC ...
Guys and Gals,
For India EB3 we need to realistically stop making any plans based on the assumption that we will get the GC in the near future. This should not stop us from taking advantage of the resources we have at our disposal. We should save money, invest if we have the money, get a higher education, invoke AC21 if our job sucks, quit and find jobs back home if our job really sucks and do any other positive thing that we actually have control over and are in a position of doing. If we keep delaying each and everything in lieu of the GC, we may never get around to doing any of it. The time wasted in this limbo state will not come back. I wasted 2 years of my life putting everything on hold in hopes that I would get the GC, now I am not delaying anything.
I have started considering the GC process as one small piece of my life that is in limbo. I am not letting it govern my life like I did a year ago. If it works out then everything will be okay, if it doesn't then I will still have all the other things I worked on while I was waiting on the outcome.
I understand that for those that have not filed their 485s there are fewer options but even they should try to not let this process take over their lives. I know its easier said then done but the other alternative is worse ...
regards,
saras
Guys and Gals,
For India EB3 we need to realistically stop making any plans based on the assumption that we will get the GC in the near future. This should not stop us from taking advantage of the resources we have at our disposal. We should save money, invest if we have the money, get a higher education, invoke AC21 if our job sucks, quit and find jobs back home if our job really sucks and do any other positive thing that we actually have control over and are in a position of doing. If we keep delaying each and everything in lieu of the GC, we may never get around to doing any of it. The time wasted in this limbo state will not come back. I wasted 2 years of my life putting everything on hold in hopes that I would get the GC, now I am not delaying anything.
I have started considering the GC process as one small piece of my life that is in limbo. I am not letting it govern my life like I did a year ago. If it works out then everything will be okay, if it doesn't then I will still have all the other things I worked on while I was waiting on the outcome.
I understand that for those that have not filed their 485s there are fewer options but even they should try to not let this process take over their lives. I know its easier said then done but the other alternative is worse ...
regards,
saras