I guess I’m not making myself clear, US Citizenship for me is extremely important. It is not about just passing a test or just getting a passport. I barely speak another language, English is my language and the US is the only home I know – I have NO allegiance whatsoever to any other country. I came here as a small child without a choice and have been denied an opportunity to be a Citizen merely because the laws said so.
I am in no way being flippant about it but rather just honest. I have met many people that ask, oh where you born here? Well how long have you been here? Then why are you not a citizen? Repeatedly this question has been asked of me from just mere acquaintances during my last 28 years in the US. At one point in my life I was fed up with explanations, my life was private and ultimately none of their business. I had absolutely no gain whatsoever from telling these people this and I should have realized back then that I should have said it was none of their business. But instead I lied, just to quickly dismiss their questioning.
Thank you for your post everyone.
I understand that your life is private and people asking where you are from. that's okay, but you should haven't done with N-400 to claim your citizenship. It is not recommended to claim on N-400 unless you have solid proof(s). You should have tried this: First you should be petitioned by your US citizen spouse in order to get a green card that will take you the path to US citizenship legally.
If you claim to be a US citizen, you need to provide the proof(s) to support your claim like legal immigrant documents, immigrant visa, etc. If you don't have any proof or green card, your N-400 application will be denied and you will be deported.