Going back to the original article. We have a guy who says he wasted nine years of his life trying to get permanent residence after arriving here as a temporary worker.
Let's imagine for a moment that I am Tom, Dick or Harry somewhere in US reading the article in my favorite Tribune while getting some rest during my evening visit to the restroom. My cousin Larry is in military and could get killed fighting for my freedom and the freedom of that ungrateful MF who spent the last nine years working some office job while I spent my years looking at my shrinking paycheck, working two jobs and spending minutes with my kids.
After reading this article I would say "f*ck this MF, take him by the ears, put him on the first ship that will take him back where he came from and do not let him, his family, friends or anyone else from his stinking country of origin ever step on the holly land of the new world or bread the air of freedom and democracy."
If, on the other hand, the Arizona guy who wasted nine years of his life had said something like: "I acquired some skills that have been in demand lately and that gave me the opportunity to spend the last nine years in this beautiful country. I learned to like the little things that used to get on my nerves and the things I liked originally I like even better. I keep working hard, I try to augment my knowledge, my company invested in me and my skills, my kids are growing proud... but somehow I feel that my spouse and I can do even more for this country - due some legal limitations my wife is not able to join the work force and this country is not using the years she spent getting her MA degree. I wanted to start a small business with a couple of my friends that would employ at least a dozen of people after a year, but I was not able to", etc... then I would, from my evening pedestal, scream 'ECCE HOMO' and maybe tell my lady about that pour guy who wants so badly to be one of us, but the stupid system will not let him.
My point? The article is stupid and it targets always-ohh-so-sad-poor-H1B's. It can cause damage and it should not be forwarded around.
Ask yourself - "honestly, why do I want to become a PR or citizen? Why do I deserve to become one?"
And then try to imagine yourself being a citizen and listening to the answer.
Finally, my first name is not Tom, Dick, Harry or Alex. alexberg is just an alias I picked when I signed up for some service on the day I saw that Nicholas Berg guy die, while I was thinking of his poor mother. I am affected by retrogression, stuck in the process, blahblah.