what to do? plz help me

sana1986

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hi everyone,
i am new on this forum.i need your help plz......actually i live in Pakistan and 2 years ago i got married with my cousin who is US citizen..after marriage he applied for my immigration and in april 2009 i got US visa for six months...i went to USA but unfortunately i divorced by him after 5 months and he sent me back to pakistan this month(september 2009)...my US visa will expire in the first week of october 2009......what i have to do to get new visa and how much time it will take and also how much does it cost? one more thing i want to ask that is it possible if i go to canada on US visa before october 2009 or i have to get a new visa for canada?

i am also green card holder..i mean i have US permanent resident card for 2 years...
i am really very much thankful of you guys in advance if you help me ot please...
 
Hi, First of all, I feel sorry for you to get a divorce in 5 month, 2nd to answer you qustion, If your husband and u get seporated or divorce within that two years condational GC residence, The USCIS will no remove you condation from your GC and you may be asked to leave the country. I would recommend you go back to Pakistan, then apply for Canadian visa, You can not travel to Canada on US visa, But you can go to Canada on your GC. One thing you can do is to prove that it was not in your intantion to get divorce, from ur husband he was the one who give you divorce, there is few factor in to that, any way I hope things would work out for you, and pls do ask if you have any fourther qustions.
 
yes, she can travel to the US and actually live in the US until the expiration date on her conditional GC. She can apply for removal of conditions on her own, as long as she has ample evidence of bona fide marriage.
 
thanx alot for your replies...............can anyone tell me that now is it possible that i can get full green card after divorce or i have to give up?

actually me and my husband did this divorce decision by mutual understanding...he married me under his parents pressure.he never wanna marry FOB and i am FOB in USA........and as you all know its not very easy to get divorce in USA...there are different laws in different states.......so according to US law we applied for divorce,they said us to live separate for an year then if still in sep 2010 we think we cant live together as husband wife so we will get divorce.but he also give me proper divorce according to our religion (ISLAM) so his parents won't pressurize him again...so according to islamic shria(law), we are divorced...........can i get married again in US before sep 2010 or if i can get marry any man in canada before sep 2010........
 
Are you kidding me? Merry again, some one that you dont even know, what would happen again get divorce, dont get along with each other. Marrige is not a joke so please try to understand the meaning of the marrige. 2nd U can be divorce accourding to your realigion, which is acceptable in most muslim socity. USA does not have divorce based on realigion, you have to go throw the legal process of geting divorce, 3rd You can not merry some one till you have a piece of paper from the Court that says you are diovrced. 4th If you attempt to merry again not even like a few month after your divorce, that would make the USCIS think deeply in to your case. They would assume that you want to get married so u can stay here and have a green card, which can lead to other things. I would highly recommend that you find some one that you really love, not merry him so you can have the chance to stay in the US. And no you can not get your 10 years GC if you dont have good enght reason for the USCIS to prove that it was not your intantion to get divorce. YOu can say as long as you want that it was force by the parents, they wont bealive you, becasue in US no one can force you to merry some one that you dont even know. hope that help God Bless
 
Your talaq holds no legal value until you are officially divorced by law.
If you marry before September 2010 either in the US or Canada, you will be committing bigamy.

but he also give me proper divorce according to our religion (ISLAM) so his parents won't pressurize him again...so according to islamic shria(law), we are divorced...........can i get married again in US before sep 2010 or if i can get marry any man in canada before sep 2010........
 
i went to USA but unfortunately i divorced by him after 5 months and he sent me back to pakistan this month(september 2009)...

i am also green card holder..i mean i have US permanent resident card for 2 years...

Are you a piece of garbage that someone can send you away? :rolleyes: You HAVE green card then just come in and live here if that's your wish. Close to expiration date you can apply for removing conditions yourself (considering your marriage was not fake).
 
thanks alot for your replies...i am not getting marry again right now...i am just asking you guys about different options......i know i am not a piece of garbage but my husband took all od my documents including my degrees,GC,passport,social security number and give me all these when i was on airport........and i really dont know at that time about my rights in USA....he did not allow me to use internet and phone and i also cant even go out of my house in USA..........i just want to know what i can do now? and i really appreciate all of yours suggestions .....thank you so much
 
he did not allow me to use internet and phone and i also cant even go out of my house in USA..........i just want to know what i can do now?

You can re-enter with your GC. If you can provide evidence that you entered into the marriage in good faith and were abused by your spouse you should be able to keep the GC and receive spousal support from him.

You need to get in touch with a good family law attorney and a good immigration attorney. We can probably steer you towards the latter, and hopefully they can recommend the former.
 
he never abuse me......he didnt allow me to go outside or use internet and fone just bcz he was angry with his parents...and he just do all this bcz in this way his parents hurt...... he said me that i am fob and i cant live in his country(USA).......this thing hurts me.i said him alright if you dont want to live me....its fine.if u wanna divorce me..its also fine but dont send me back.but he sent me back..actually in our country, people dont give respect to divorcee..thats why i dont wanna come back to my home country.but its alrite.......my parents said there should me something good for me if all this happened.......my parents really support me alot...
but now i really wanna go back to USA and wanna become strong and wanna show him that i am not a dumb........
 
he didnt allow me to go outside or use internet

No offense, but that's a variation of abuse. Abuse doesn't mean just "beating you up". :) Just take it easy, come back (if you really want to), and apply for removing conditions when time comes.
 
No offense, but that's a variation of abuse. Abuse doesn't mean just "beating you up". :) Just take it easy, come back (if you really want to), and apply for removing conditions when time comes.

But that variation of abuse is not that easy to prove in front of immigration judge unless she has strong evidences.
 
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