Britsimon
Super Moderator
Hello and thank you for your response.
I agree about the shoulds everybody has mentioned to me. But unfortunately life is not always that simple. We were planning on travelling back on several occasions but could not make it happen.
As of now, as I mentioned, we've had a pretty rough time in France and we may have to move back (I understand this has no bearing in the decision of me keeping my green card). If I ever get through immigration, I may actually have a work interview. So loosing my green card would obviously make life much harder for me.
However, this is not my main concern at the moment since, I can get it back through my wife, at a hefty but manageable cost (~1500$ from what I've seen).
My main concern is entry in the US for this trip AND not imparing future potential green card applications.
I thought after a year of no entry applying for ESTA would simply categorize me as a tourist and I would be granted entry as such under the visa waiver program. However everybody seems to tell me that it isnt the case. (on this forum and 2 of the 3 lawyers i have contacted). One lawyer even told me applying for ESTA is the worst thing I could do. I dont understand why.
Also, If i attempt an entry via green card and the CBPO "refuses" entry I thought I would be granted entry as a tourist. Again, everybody seems to tell me that it isnt the case.
What I cannot do is wait weeks or months in the US for an immigration judge appointment. I still have a job in France and need to be able to return with my family at the end of this emergency trip.
OK, you seem to be very undecided and not focused, earlier you said the GC was important to you, but now it isn't and this entry is more important. Your trip is in a few days, so good luck and let us know how it goes.