That is simply not true! I saw lots of fights on this forum, remember Francisky???
The only reason I decided to join finally was so as to contribute. I agree with Trinigirl that some people offer opinions in a condescending manner. I mean there are people like Triple Citizen and a few others who are kind whenever they respond to people's messages.
Then there are others, who are sarcastic...why? If you think so lowly of someone, then don't respond! Maturity is the ability to respond to others the way you'd like to be treated!
I agree with your general comments. However, I do find myself being impatient with 2 types of people:
(1) People who do no research whatsoever and post questions to which the
answers are easily discoverable in the USCIS instructions or with a search
tool. Many questions are asked over and over again. The first place to
start is not to post foolishly, but to read instructions carefully.
(2) The other type is people who come on here with a particular agenda,
asking a question, but really wanting a particular answer. One example
that comes to mind is the classical hypo of someone who wants to stay
permanently, but wishes to enter on the VWP and shortly after adjust
status. When I have told them that what they propose is illegal, I have
gotten entangled in all sorts of verbal fistfights, attacking character.
Look, if you ask a question, I will go straight for the jugular, and if you
don't like it, that's your problem. I am certainly not going to dance around
to give someone an answer he/she wants.