Picaso said:
But joef encougaes member to surrender GC, thats sucks and please don't support such anti-immigrants. I don't want anybody to loose their their immigrant status because of such asshole.
The problem is that a Green Card requires you to actually LIVE in the United States, that's the quid pro quo in return for eliminating the border and visa hassles.
What a lot of folks (I see many Indians but it is by no means restricted to them) want to do is use the Green Card as a Border Crossing Card, which it certainly is not. In this forum and others we see folks who have worked for years towards a Green Card and within weeks of getting it, they want to leave the US for over a year and put that residency in risk. (Don't even get me started about the folks who want to bring over an elderly parent and ask if they can immediately get free government health care.) If you don't actually want to live here, why exert the effort?
That's the flip side of the coin, and what folks like me get irked about. Quite honestly, folks who get a Green Card with no intentions of living here are the true anti-immigrants, because they make the rest of us look bad. A Green Card has certain obligations as well as privileges, and you need to need to be aware of those obligations. As an immediate relative of a US citizen, you shouldn't waste time and money getting a Green Card if you don't actually want to live here.
Think of how many posters here have gotten a Green Card before they got married, and have a spouse stuck in Asia, half a world away. The FB2 waits are so long that they need to wait 5 years to get citizenship before their spouse comes here and is reunited with them. Tell those folks that they need to wait an extra 30, 60, 90 or 120 days to be reunited with their spouse, because the consulate in their country is processing extra immigrant visas for people
who don't actually want to reside in the United States. How sympathetic do you expect them to be?
And again, there is no need for anyone to resort to insults. It's a failing of your language skills, or your character.