Britsimon
Super Moderator
If it’s a genuine marriage sure you can, but the fact that you asked a question about what your husband must say when the interviewer asks him if he marries for a green card certainly shows this is a green card marriage! And that’s fraud.
Don’t you have cousins or aunts or uncles or something in the US you can stay with if the big problem is what the neighbors will say?? I’m sorry but I think this is a terrible reason to marry someone. Anyway unsolicited advice, if you’re brave enough to travel to the US to start a new life you can be brave enough to do it alone, you’re an adult legally right and your parents can’t stop you? But if you do feel the need to let them dictate to you then you probably need to give up on the US because from what you said it sounds like the only reason your husband will marry you is to get a green card. And they will figure it out and ban both of you from traveling to the USA ever again if you try a fraudulent arrangement like this.
Mom/Susie,
I might have missed this above, because I am rushing, but I think we need to put this in the context of fairly typical arranged marriages in that region. As we know, there are many such arranged marriages, and those marriages last a lifetime. It might sound like a GC marriage, but really it is more a requirement of a child by her parents as a stage in life and seen as common sense in that area. Given that, I would imagine the interviewers recognize these arrangements and know that they are as solid as marriages entered into through Western methods.