Thanks for the info, JohnF. It's great to see there are other Js going through this process at the same time. Best of luck to you!
I agree that if possible I'd rather do AOS than CP. What I'm worried about is that if for whatever reason my J1 sponsor discovered I'm applying for a GC, they would terminate me from the program. And that would have disastrous consequences (both for my current J1 as well as the GC, and potentially future visas).
That's why the CP could become more attractive. If I can shorten my J1 program, finish it successfully, return to my home country in Dec/Jan, and do CP; it seems like a less risky strategy to me. But perhaps there's something I'm missing. Mom, what would you say is a less risky strategy? I'd love to hear your thoughts! Thanks so much!!
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