If you are not ready for an interview in October, then you can reschedule it till December or so. The visas will not run out by then. I wouldn't leave it any later than March/April though.
How dificult was it for you guys to make a decision to move to the US? In terms of leaving family members behind... I mean for me personally, it was the most difficult thing to overcome. Nobody from my family has ever moved to a place so distant and they are used to being pretty close. But my desire for living my American Dream is stronger and I figured there might be no better time to do it. After all, I have just one try in this world so I want to make the most out of it and do what I really love to do. Which takes me back to the quote in your signature, Q. I like it a lot and agree with it fully.
Oh I wouldn't want to wait until March/April! I'd be ready to go as soon as possible! Just unfortunate that the police checks apparently have to take 6 months prior . I need to stop getting my hopes up though, stop planning. I keep looking on craigslist for LA, Dallas, and Little Rock all day! Just looking at car prices/houses/pet stuff etc.. Way too excited given the chances.
Hi Jess
I have not made myself clear so let's clear this up real quick - the police check must be done within 6 months of interview, i.e., it can't be a check done a year ago, so if you have an interview in October, that's ok, it means your check will be nice and new
And don't worry, planning is not a bad thing! I have a folder with all our documents in it, and have had it sitting under my desk here (at home) since I applied, adding copies of school records, marriage etc etc as I go. If I don't get a number this year, I still have it all there! If I do, same thing lol
Hubby knows when I have 'USA days', because I spend it looking on craigs list for apartments, jobs (for me, he has one there), costs of shipping. I am the eternal optimist
Q
I like to come back to this forum several times a day now. I might check it more frequently than Facebook, haha (which I'm going to dump soon probably).
How dificult was it for you guys to make a decision to move to the US? In terms of leaving family members behind... I mean for me personally, it was the most difficult thing to overcome. Nobody from my family has ever moved to a place so distant and they are used to being pretty close. But my desire for living my American Dream is stronger and I figured there might be no better time to do it. After all, I have just one try in this world so I want to make the most out of it and do what I really love to do. Which takes me back to the quote in your signature, Q. I like it a lot and agree with it fully.
The decision to live such a long distance is a huge one, no matter what stage in life you are; young, couple, small children, middle age. I have always lived away from my family, so although we are close, it would come as no surprise for me to return to the US. The hardest part is the events that happen in your absence and dealing with that, like illness and death (my parents are elderly), or your own children not moving with you. I suppose it's a matter of weighing up what you think will give you life happiness as well. There is no perfect solution and you will miss them, some days more than others. The key is contact (skype is wonderful!), planning to visit when you can, and encouraging folks to visit you. As Abbie just said, be busy, lead a full life in the US and make friends as well. A good friend of mine said "you can either move to where you know you will find what makes you happy, or you can stay and wait for others to need you on their time - but you will just spend it sitting and waiting". My children are grown, so they are not moving with me, and that's a huge challenge for me as they enter the time of their lives where they will eventually marry and have children; but, they know me, they want only for me to enjoy life, and.....they want somewhere to come holiday in California too
As I said, it's a huge decision - you have to look at it very realistically and know that with the adventure and excitement of being overseas will come tears, homesickness and regret.
Q
Best of luck to all DV2013 applicants in this thread.
@Schoolboy, i just added u to my Yahoo chat. Hope to chat with u later. My number is 08027207049. Cheers!
Helllo,happy weekend ovicity and schoolboy thanks so much for your kind gestures,infacts thanks so much for your constant phone calls i really appreciates you guys you are doing a great job,bravo. However i have begin to catch fever against that main day may1st i believe it an holiday and celebration day for us anyway you guys should keep champgne ahead for may1st i believe its time for us celebrate our visas accordingly please encourage others to come on board just 14 days to go lets prejuice and discuss relevant issues regard our chances of winning ,lets hope for the best and prayer can change all things.
Hi Verdite and others,
Thanks for mentioning me. However, I've been on the 'down low' in the past few weeks. I really do not feel optimistic about May 1st as I feel it's going to be the same results: "You have not been selected for further processing" blah, blah, blah. This year, little over 1,700 persons signed up for DV-2013 from my country. Can you imagine 'hoping' that the computer selects your name out of this number? (extremely slim chances). However, only 15 persons were selected in DV-2012 from my country. Better yet, I've already have plan B in place if I still want to move to the USA in the next two years (son will be naturalized). So my hopes for May 1st is: "whatever happens". But again, my optimism has decreased drastically this year. Chances are just too small!
It's also amazing to see how time is flying by so fast! Before you know it, it will be time to sign up for DV-2014 (if necessary)