Sm1smom
Super Moderator
in Minnesota still waiting for my SSN and GC. Life in the house isnt the best esp with a host who isnt even a relative. Some peoples homes have stiff rules ....mine, NO SUPPER/DINNER. Hunger is really killing me. When will I move out of this damn place!!
While I understand the culture shock and other changes you're probably experiencing since your arrival, statements such as the one highlighted above portray you as an ungrateful person IMO. It's one of the reasons some people are reluctant to host others or to help in anyway. You host, whatever his/her shortcomings at the moment has probably been of more help to you during this your DV journey. As a matter of fact, if all the person has done is to provide you with a roof over your head and an address to receive your documents, the person deserves to be commended. Referring to the person's place as some "damn place" is not nice, and I don't think you're tied down there anyway.