So does this mean your 2NL doesnt have her name? Mmmh when they will ask you if you are married what will you answer? Mmmh
Who Must Participate in the Interview
If a derivative applicant is following to join the principal applicant, do they have to be present at the interview?
Only the applicants who are listed on the interview appointment letter issued by the NVC must appear to be interviewed at the scheduled time. Applicants who will follow to join the principal applicant later will be interviewed separately. You should contact the Embassy/Consulate directly to arrange separate interviews.
http://travel.state.gov/visa/immigrants/info/info_3744.html
Make sure you inform the Consulate Office that you got married but dont intend to travel with her at the moment she will
Follow To Join that is if you have the BALLS as Papasan puts it