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I am glad that someone is bringing up the issue of work at last, i have not really read much about this in the forum. I would advise anyone that is in a field that is not lucative, if that are still interested in being in high demand, to consider going into any type of medical field especially nursing. You can usually get a job within a few hours after passing your CPR exam or another exam in the field u want in medical. This field is in high damand and you have not difficulty even when you relocate to any other state, as long as you have your certificate. Anyone interested shld brush up on their biology even before leaving Nigeria, maybe even get the books that you will need to read for these exams b4 leaving 9ja and start reading. From what i have heard you can go for a 3-6weeks course and that is all, at least to start, then continue the exams.
ALL married guys out there going with wifes note the highest divorce rate in the usa is among Nigerians married to Nurses - why is this?
This is because when couples relocate to the usa, they notice pretty quickly that you need 2 income to survive especially at the inital stage before you get better jobs. The husband will have the wife to go into the nursing field becos it the best jobs out there which sees beyond the accent, and face that you are nigerian. The wife usually studies for about 1-2 years to be a Nurse, depending on how hard she works after getting her certificate she can earn as much as 3,000-5,000 per week (yes you are right per week). I think after a while she starts to ask herself what she actually needs a husband for? especially if it is a husband that she was managing b4 and that drive her crazy and the fact that he does not cook, clean or do anything in the house.
In america or aboard in general, it can be very hard especially if the wife is working long hours and still coming home to salve for a husband/children that does not lift a finger to do anything. Ofcourse she will see a lot of divorced girls at work that will be full of advices, to make it worse, she will quickly realise that the law favours the wife - she will get the house and sometime the kids too in a divorce.
HERE IS SOME ADVISE
Guys there are a few ways to learn from this, 1. do not become a liable at home that your wife start to imagine the house without you there, 2. Help your wife out especially if she is also working long hours like u 3. improve yourself anyway you can, by getting more qualification at any opportunity 4. realise the living in usa is hard, there is no house help to clean or cook and bathe the children, u both have to work together. 5. AMERICA CHANGES MEN & WOMEN - THERE ARE a lot of temption out there for both property - this is for both parties, women also improve yourself, and help out financially whereever you can, every penny counts in USA
Thumb up for all the forumites. Please do note this. I must say without mincing words that whatever Johnkent says, better believe it. I now understand why many Nigerians go into the nursing professions here, among the best of jobs here it is the only one that readily assimilates Africans because the whites themseves hardly do that ..... controversial....We must not deceive ourselves, America is tough for new immigrants especially when you can not speak like them. One fellow black insulted me that I have accent and I told him grammar is not about accent, and that I speak Queen english, I told him if he speaks in 9ja nobody will understand him, that he will be regarded as having accent. Whoever is coming to America must be prepared. In all if God is on your side, you will find things easy. As many that can raise money b4 coming do so and get a car once you land, so as to make life easier. Please let all study and brush up.
Shalom.
I am glad that someone is bringing up the issue of work at last, i have not really read much about this in the forum. I would advise anyone that is in a field that is not lucative, if that are still interested in being in high demand, to consider going into any type of medical field especially nursing. You can usually get a job within a few hours after passing your CPR exam or another exam in the field u want in medical. This field is in high damand and you have not difficulty even when you relocate to any other state, as long as you have your certificate. Anyone interested shld brush up on their biology even before leaving Nigeria, maybe even get the books that you will need to read for these exams b4 leaving 9ja and start reading. From what i have heard you can go for a 3-6weeks course and that is all, at least to start, then continue the exams.
ALL married guys out there going with wifes note the highest divorce rate in the usa is among Nigerians married to Nurses - why is this?
This is because when couples relocate to the usa, they notice pretty quickly that you need 2 income to survive especially at the inital stage before you get better jobs. The husband will have the wife to go into the nursing field becos it the best jobs out there which sees beyond the accent, and face that you are nigerian. The wife usually studies for about 1-2 years to be a Nurse, depending on how hard she works after getting her certificate she can earn as much as 3,000-5,000 per week (yes you are right per week). I think after a while she starts to ask herself what she actually needs a husband for? especially if it is a husband that she was managing b4 and that drive her crazy and the fact that he does not cook, clean or do anything in the house.
In america or aboard in general, it can be very hard especially if the wife is working long hours and still coming home to salve for a husband/children that does not lift a finger to do anything. Ofcourse she will see a lot of divorced girls at work that will be full of advices, to make it worse, she will quickly realise that the law favours the wife - she will get the house and sometime the kids too in a divorce.
HERE IS SOME ADVISE
Guys there are a few ways to learn from this, 1. do not become a liable at home that your wife start to imagine the house without you there, 2. Help your wife out especially if she is also working long hours like u 3. improve yourself anyway you can, by getting more qualification at any opportunity 4. realise the living in usa is hard, there is no house help to clean or cook and bathe the children, u both have to work together. 5. AMERICA CHANGES MEN & WOMEN - THERE ARE a lot of temption out there for both property - this is for both parties, women also improve yourself, and help out financially whereever you can, every penny counts in USA