Hello, I had just received an email about USCIS's decision that they are denying my fiancee petition AFTER ALMOST FOUR LONG YEARS OF WAITING!! I had filed the petition on July 27, 2007 and they claimed they received it on August 11, 2007. I am FUMING FURIOUS with the stupid corrupted fraudulent greedy Immigration Service!! They would rather accept frauds and scams and not accept legitimate relationships!! That is so damn unfair and wrong!! They have destroyed the BEST LOVE OF MY LIFE!! I WILL NEVER EVER FORGIVE THEM FOR IT nor WILL I EVER FORGET WHAT THEY HAVE DONE TO MY EX-FIANCEE AND ME!! She does not love me anymore, THANKS to them, but said that she still wanted me to court her!! I have a criminal record, which I know did not help at all and she knows about it, but still accepted me anyway!! She was the RIGHT ONE at the wrong time and place!!
I need to know how I can sue USCIS and get compensation for all the emotional distress/trauma they have put me through, for destroying MY relationship with the LOVE OF MY LIFE, and to get my money back from them! I am at a point where I want to flip out on them, but I know that it will not get me anywhere. I know that I need to be calm about it and not be very emotional or overreact about this. Please help me!! I have told my ex-fiancee that I still love her, even though she does not love me anymore. I am blaming USCIS for this because she and I could have been a very blissful couple with one or two kids by now if they had APPROVED the stupid fiancee petition ALMOST FOUR YEARS AGO!! Now, my love life is destroyed because of THEM!! I have them to thank for my fiancee not loving me anymore!! She said that she wants me to go to her country, but I do not see the point of it if she is not going to love me or want to be with me as a lover. It would be a wasted trip and more wasted money if I go there, just to be rejected by her again!!
If she still had been my lover, it would have been a totally different story. I would have gone there to marry her there and possibly live there and renounce my American citizenship to be a Filipino citizen!! Another thing is that I have my adoptive mother's family there as well, but I am not close to them at all so there is no point of my visiting the Philippines anymore, now that I have lost the LOVE OF MY LIFE, thanks to USCIS!! I have told my ex-fiancee that if she and I were a couple, I would not have asked her, "Do you want me to appeal the decision?" She said that there was no need, which means that she is ready to move on from me, yet she still has our status as engaged on one of the social sites that she and I belong to.
Please help me on what to do. I was told that I would get a denial notice within 15 days of March 11, 2011. I will see if it will come or not. I do not believe them anymore about when things will arrive since they have lied about letting me know about their decision so many times before when I had called them SO MANY TIMES!! I am so fed up with them!! It has been a total nightmare for me, if not for my ex-fiancee!!