I have to agree with this -it happend to me and couple of my friends - one friend of mine even got a whole tirade by the guy (usual thing like "why did you come here etc." )hiring -but what can you do?? I dont realy have much experiance with US so far being here only for year but its strange mostly hostile experinace so far -I personaly have a feeling of being in very strange country where everything was running smoothly till certain point when the fuel (money) runs out and now everybody is just tearing what ever they can get their hands on it -
beign from Eastern Europe Istill remember so called "transition period" (1989-1999)in my country after the fall of communism when new rules of the game got introduced and some people took huge advantage of it and majority of population just lost the grip and fell totaly out of system-and also which I find strange is perception of some people talking about the system here in the US (and also here on this forum)which is pretty optimistic or should I say idealistic whereas its actualy totaly opposite -I personaly have a feeling of total insecurity regarding my job at the moment ,my savings in the bank -
my healt(what would happen if I get ill) etc . its littlebit unsetling -this is not just my feeling but almost all the people I know have the same (mixed)feelings ;also its strange to find such shallow place which lives by total stereotype-here it seems that only thing counting in your favour is 1.personal beauty -2.connections (family or friends) 3 ."your people" i.e. immigrants from your old country who are willing to"scratch you back" and only then talent ,knowledge etc.