I called USCIS regarding my situation. I am an asylee planning to apply for GC in Jan 2008. My question to them was about follow to join. I am planning to get married before I get my GC approval and try to do a follow to join after my GC approval. The rep as well as the supervisor had no clue what follow to join was!! The supervisor tells me you can get married as an asylee and file I-730 to get wife here. My reaction was "are you sure?". I told her for I-730 to be effective, I am supposed to have been married to my wife before I got my asylum. The form also clearly confirms my statement. She still insisted that what she said was right. I was not in the mood to argue. Could she be correct?