I am the wife of Want2BAmerican. First of all I would like to say "THANK YOU" to you all for taking the time to answer my husbands questions.
I just wanted to chime in here. I know it is hard to believe that my husband did not know that he shouldn't vote. I had no clue either and I took the US Citizenship test I believe which is mandatory in the 10th grade.
A little background...
My husband and I met when we were 21. We married at 22. Way to young to get married, but we were young and in love. At that age you think you know everything, but now at 35 I realize we really didn't know much. I knew my husband was not a USC. I honestly felt like I was telling him to do the "Right thing" by voting. As a USC I don't think about the rules of citizenship everyday. I wish I did. I remember some voting came around and I was disappointed that he did not vote. I honestly felt like it would be better that he voted. Like it was saying..."I care so much about this country, I want to make sure I do what I can for it". I know it sounds ridiculous, but it is the truth. So, when it came time to renew his license and they asked about registering to vote...I was right there saying absolutely he will register. As far as the citizenship question, I don't remember it either so I can't respond. I know now, only after reading your responses, that this was wrong and it should not have been done. I love my husband very much. We have 5 beautiful children...ages 8 weeks to 12 years. We live a normal life. We live an upstanding life. We are honest people(even if it is hard to believe). I mean, my gosh, I don't know how many times I realized that I didn't pay for something at the grocery store and walked right back in and made sure it was paid for. We raise our children to be honest and compassionate. I guess I am saying all this because I don't want you to see my husband as just an illegal immigrant. He is a wonderful man who provides for his family.
I am proud to be an American. I am the first one to stop and respect the flag, I say the pledge of allegiance proudly, I hold my hand to my heart while listening to the National Anthem and I make sure everyone in my family is too. I would never intentionally disobey any law.
My husband has a lot of thinking to do. I don't want him to risk living in the US to become a citizen. I wouldn't want to leave, but I will follow him anywhere.
Again....Thank you so much, the advice is truly appreciated.
Cathy
PS be kind when responding to me, I don't post much