The OP knows nothing of his country of origin, he has been brought up as an American and now, at 17 he discovers he's in the country illegally. Sure, he's an alien, he's deportable, he is breaking the law but cut him some slack.
He's 17, at 17 you think about parties and (maybe) school. He exhibited more maturity than his mother who married a citizen a couple of years ago and never adjusted their status. He is just discovering how complicated (and expensive!) the immigration law is. He does not understand yet how big of a chance he was given, to adjust his status and obtain a permanent resident card and ultimately a citizenship.
To 1Dt88: yes, you are breaking the law but you have been given a chance to stop doing it while you're still here in the country. Sure, USCIS makes you pay through the nose but would you like to pay a full college tuition or, worse, get deported to your country of origin? Treat these $3,000 as an investment in your future. Borrow it if necessary but do not waste this chance.
Yeah I was a little surprised about the fees at first but after a while, I started thinking about it as an investment. I would get back the money eventually anyway, through food stamps and other government aid.
I don't think I'm still in this country illegally due to the marriage between my mom and stepdad. We spoke to several immigration lawyers and we have no reason to be deported anymore.
Anyway, this is getting off topic. I just have one question. Under the "Who May Not File This Form I-130?" it says
"1. An adoptive parent or adopted child, if the adoption took place after the child's 16th birthday, or if the child has not been in the legal custody and living with the parent(s) for at least two years."
This means my stepfather can't file an I-130 form for me because he has not yet legally adopted me yet or did he adopt me when he married my mother? I'm not sure how the whole adoption thing works, does it count as adoption when he marries my mother or does he have to file formal paper work or ... ?