Got 2 year green card. But I can`t do this anymore. Please Help me advice

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JT7

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Ive got married to a nice, loving guy. I`ve just got 2 year green card. Was so happy. But I found out my husband is cheating and is going when we go to his parents house, where he actually have a date with someone. Im just crying every day, if I get a divorce what my chances to get 1o year green card? I have a little proof about his cheating, only flirt in a chat, but I can`t explain how I put pieces together and figured out he was cheating at the day he said he was with friend. I mean I literally have no proof. My heart is broken, I went through this immigration process so much money and nerves. I just can`t look at him anymore, I feel so unhappy. I still want to get my 10 year green card. I can`t just quit. But I`m so i dk how to explain i dont wanna live anymore. i cant believe and look in his eyes and listen to the lie and i would never think he was like that who would ever betray me. im lost idk what to do. and if i divorce and file as waiver what if i lose my green card too? after i lost my husband and my future everything
 
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As long as you can prove that you entered the marriage with good faith, you should be able to remove your conditions.

JT7 said:
Ive got married to a nice, loving guy. I`ve just got 2 year green card. Was so happy. But I found out my husband is cheating and is going when we go to his parents house, where he actually have a date with someone. Im just crying every day, if I get a divorce what my chances to get 1o year green card? I have a little proof about his cheating, only flirt in a chat, but I can`t explain how I put pieces together and figured out he was cheating at the day he said he was with friend. I mean I literally have no proof. My heart is broken, I went through this immigration process so much money and nerves. I just can`t look at him anymore, I feel so unhappy. I still want to get my 10 year green card. I can`t just quit. But I`m so i dk how to explain i dont wanna live anymore. i cant believe and look in his eyes and listen to the lie and i would never think he was like that who would ever betray me. im lost idk what to do. and if i divorce and file as waiver what if i lose my green card too? after i lost my husband and my future everything
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On 23rd April, you posted (October 2011 filers thread http://forums.immigration.com/showt...ilers/page28&p=2573669&highlight=#post2573669) that you just received your GC. You mentioned that you had to attend your GC interview by yourself since your husband was in military and deployed overseas. In three days time (your post was made on 27th April), you're accusing your husband (who is supposedly deployed overseas) of cheating?

Care to explain?
(Not to us, but you'll have to do it to USCIS officials!)
 
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This sudden turn around in your relationship and feelings towards your husband barely weeks after receiving your green card is very unusual/suspicious. I hope this was not a case of using this gentleman solely for a green card. Your posting does not make a lot of sense.

JT7 said:
Ive got married to a nice, loving guy. I`ve just got 2 year green card. Was so happy. But I found out my husband is cheating and is going when we go to his parents house, where he actually have a date with someone. Im just crying every day, if I get a divorce what my chances to get 1o year green card? I have a little proof about his cheating, only flirt in a chat, but I can`t explain how I put pieces together and figured out he was cheating at the day he said he was with friend. I mean I literally have no proof. My heart is broken, I went through this immigration process so much money and nerves. I just can`t look at him anymore, I feel so unhappy. I still want to get my 10 year green card. I can`t just quit. But I`m so i dk how to explain i dont wanna live anymore. i cant believe and look in his eyes and listen to the lie and i would never think he was like that who would ever betray me. im lost idk what to do. and if i divorce and file as waiver what if i lose my green card too? after i lost my husband and my future everything
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Disregard the whole post

Yes, I apologize, it was the total misunderstanding and terrible mistake. As I said my hubby is deployed and it`s actually a long story, so everything is good now. Once again it was terrible misunderstanding. Our marriage is real 100% and we love each other more than anything.
Thanks anyways!
 
ananga73 said:
This sudden turn around in your relationship and feelings towards your husband barely weeks after receiving your green card is very unusual/suspicious. I hope this was not a case of using this gentleman solely for a green card. Your posting does not make a lot of sense.
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Its really impolite the way you judge people not knowing the whole situation. But it`s what ever, I don`t really care what other people think.
 
TheRealCanadian said:
Looks like you did the same thing to your husband.
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OMG some people r just so stupid! READ again: we HAVE WORKED IT ALL OUT. So what ever you say I did to my husband is a bull shit. But I don`t have to even explain anything to a stranger.
 
JT7 said:
OMG some people r just so stupid! READ again: we HAVE WORKED IT ALL OUT. So what ever you say I did to my husband is a bull shit. But I don`t have to even explain anything to a stranger.
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"some people r just so stupid"....if you are so smart,why did you even come on this forum to ask for help and sympathy?
And if you can expect help,suggestions and guidance from "strangers" , then surely you are also answerable to people who are spending their time and energy on you! This is a great forum with very nice members,so please be polite and cut out the cr@*#
 
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