Apparently you don't want to keep your green card. Going back to the same country you fled is inconsistent with keeping a green card based on asylum.
Please read my previous post...and I quote "We have a tremendous opportunity to be here, and not 'there'., and when life throws curve ball such as illness and death, it creates a platform of extreme desire to be with loved ones, if it is impossible so be it."
If it is not possible then I accept that virtue. I was merely asking a question, and covering it from every possible angle. Thank you for your comments.