mrshamilton
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DavidSEA, thank you for your empathy, and yes whenever i entered the states i told the truth that i like to spent time with my husband.....i never overstayed my visa.....and when my husband was here in my homecountry he had an reentry, we know he cannot spent to much time outside the states yet, so he will come and visit me twice time this year for 2 weeks.......
on a personal level, I'm sorry to hear that you had this rather upsetting experience. Unfortunately, the visa and immigration laws do not work well for your situation. By the rules of immigration laws, you were indeed breaking laws as the officer had every reason to believe that you tried to enter with intent to immigrate on your tourist visa. The same could have already happened at your second entry last Aug. if that officer would have known you're visiting your LPR husband. And yes, you're lucky they did not cancel your visa outright.
There is no quick fix for your situation. Once your LPR husband has his 5 years of US residency, he can apply for naturalization. Once he's a USC, he can sponsor you for a family based GC (check out the relevant forums on this site). Until then, tread lightly, i.e. stay out of the US as much as you can to not get denied and your visa canceled. And for a true catch20, your husband cannot stay too long outside of the US with you either, unless he risks his continuous residence.