Out of curiosity
@Sm1smom, suppose:
1. You are separated. The DV requires you to put his/her name in the application. If you win, what happens? Does s/he come along as a dependent?
2. Your marriage is coming to an end, and you have realised that you have to part ways, but have not yet separated (or you don't have legal separation documentation). When applying the DV, you have to put them as your spouse (because you are not divorced and have no legal separation document). What happens if you win? Do you ask the embassy to remove your spouse from your application or would the embassy let you through as soon-to-be-divorced immigrants. You can't be so mean to leave the father/mother of your child(ren) behind, can you? OR will the DV force you to choose?