Explain to me, why you would bring up such an insensitive comment and compare it with Maggie's experience. Exactly how does a phone being stolen compare to what is going on in SA. It is not so hard to ask me to clarify what I meant without putting words in my mouth.
SA is viewed somewhat like a "first world country" even though it lies in Kenya. But guess what, their crime rate percentage puts them at the top especially economic crime rate. I did not even want to delve into US and it's issues because they are out there , PUBLIC. Yet, it is a sensitive topic for them too. And that is the origin of DV so why bring it up? You say we should be mindful of other countries yet you have called out US. I mean, since you brought it up, I may as well say, isn't there racism all over the world?
Kenya is not left behind with tribal clashes so why would I suggest that it is better than SA in that aspect. I am honestly appalled by your assumption. It's like walking on eggshells.
Allow me to say this out loud!
Your (not just you) tone in correction when it comes to AF groups is quite condescending compared to other regions. How about that. If that gets me kicked out here, I am okay too
@Sm1smom