I am sorry if I failed to make this much clearer. Im writing all this in stress mode. Ok so my hubby and I had been dating for years long distance, him in Africa, me in the US and got engaged then I won the DV and we decided to get married since it did make sense to do it then than after DV is done. We live in different countries currently because we are waiting for the process to be done for him to move here and this is no sham, we are two people in love and can back tht up. We are in AF region and whilst waiting he was with family on a UK visitors visa and he decided to extend it for a few more months. So it is the UK visa extension dept holding it back and contacting them has been a pain. They keep saying processing. Process was supposed to take 10days and its been 4 months and online forums suggest thats what they seem to do, longest i saw being abt 10mths, which is rather ridiculous. So right now he once to withdraw extension and get passport back coz really its been too long and he doesnt wanna be there anymore. Thats were my issue comes in. Even if he withdraws there is no guarantee he will get passport back in the 10days they say, for all we know it could be another few months (sawsuch cases on the forums too). This is the worst case scenario, my question is, what would I do in tht case? I dont trust the UK system anymore and scared we are not gonna get the passbort bk in time. Im the primary applicant and want to proceed with things, we are current in June and interview in Africa and dont wanna lose out on the visa for that reason. Could I interview alone and his set at a different date? Let me know if i need to clarify further.