Sm1smom
Super Moderator
Hi usken. Am in the same dilema like you. But me am in the coorporate. Qat I secided is to leave my family since my wife is also working. Its not worth putting all eggs in one basket. I will hustle for the first period and then prepare for my family if they get a chance to come. Otherwise husling with your family might be a tight paper. Besides like they say its a lottery if things don't workout you can return home. (Ug for my case)
If I understand your post correctly, your family will not be processing with you as DV beneficiaries, correct? Or is it that you will all process together but you go ahead first to explore and plan for them to join you before their visas expire?