A certain friend of mine called me last night,he lives in Missouri.He was discouraging me from going to Maryland."Life is rily hard in Baltimore,you can hardly get a job,a house.....pay stubs are also poor.African immigrants are actualy migrating from Maryland to missouri.Come to where i am,you will easily get a job and a good life bla bla bla,then i asked him"would you lend me some small amount of cash that i will refund once i am settled,regardless of the figure?"He replied"eeeh you know between this month and Dec pple here in America are usualy very broke bla bla.***end of call***then i wondered.....is there a state in America where life is that easy? i have a good host in Maryland,my very own uncle,so who will host me and my family in Missouri even if its a 'paradise'?The know- it- all types but will hardly do anything to help.