alexee357, diafa, tigerman and everyone in the house, i really appreciate ur prayers and support. Its not easy u know, most expecially when u are in love with someone. As much as i try to make things work 4 the both of us, she keeps on cheating on me and telling me lies. I love her so much and like u say Diafa, i'm really attached to her. I gave her my heart and my whole life. She's everything av ever dreamt of. I'm sorry about my outburst, but i'm heartbroken and its just as if i'm seeing my whole life drowning. Where do i start from my good friends? Her mother whom av helped time wihtout number is also behind her. Infact, she basically warned me yesterday not to come near her daughter anymore. I seem not to understand wat i did to the mother or the daughter. I tried my best to keep this relationship going even when i meet her with other guyz. I endup begging with tears on my eyes even wen she's at fault. She will never come to terms with me unless i beg her. She refuse doing anything for me. I do av to beg her attimes to cook 4 me. Pls house, wat av i done to deserve all this. I cried thru out the night and i'm still on tears as i'm typing this message to u. Is it a crime to LOVE someone?
Hi Ovicity!
U have done anything but love, some people doesnt deserve Love ...I definitely understand that u love her, but Love should be in Both way if not it s not Love anymore ....U should leave her I know its not easy but the more u stay with her the more its painful and u hurt urself!!! She might be doing this just for u to leave her?? After all those lies and dishonesty and deception how u did not got sooo mad and erase everything from her?? relationship hav to be both way, if she s not giving back runaway....I think u should just do like her take some space, date other girl , see someonelse and maybe u ll find u r dream girl...and it will be easier for u to completely forget her!! coz she doesnt seems like to be the one, even if u thought she was....
As for her mother she might be lying to her too saying that u r the bad one ....She is just taking advantage from u ..
This is not an easy situation I ll try to give u some girl advices, but for sure If I was u I break everything up right now.....The thing is once u let go once (lies, cheating...) without any repercussions u can be sure she will do it again no matter what coz she knows u wont react .....And another thing I can tell u 100% nobody will change for someone, if someone change its for himself not for someone...U should take a decision and dont look back at her ....
Just give u r love to Someone that deserve it!!
u seems like a good guy....U ll forget about this situation , pain will leave with time...
And I really pray & hope u ll get the GC (And for sure for all the benefits that the GC can give U ...lol ), it would definitely be easier if u live ur country without her and have a new life ...It will be definitely easier to forget this chapter of u r life !!
U just have to take a hard / tough decision at this time and u ll be more than relief in the future coz u cant stay like this....Life is short enjoy it as much as u can Dont cry for somebody that did not deserve this tears .....!!! Believe in Urself and Be confident U r the good one so nothing can happened to U !!!!!
There still is good girl on this earth ! U ll find the right One Im sure who will makes u happy and cook for U all the time
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