this is an long story but let me make it short. i get my 10 year green card about 1 year ago. and i went back to my country on jan,2009 and back in fed 2009 find out that my wife was cheting on me so i want to divorce with her, now she is acting up and call me yeatday that she has call the lawer and will let the USCIS know that she will cancal my green card? can she do this?
by the way, she also will let the police officer , court and USCIS know that i was threaten to her ( we were having brannigan so we were threaten to each other ).
P.S we been marry for about 4 year and we have one 4 years old boy.
If you have a 10 year green card, with or without any kid, then there is nothing your wife could do to cancel/revoke it. Period. Of course, she could attempt to do it, but she won't be succeed unless your marriage is a sham and she has some convincing proofs to prove it like something in writing from you or on the tape about you saying that you married her just to obtain a green card. If she doesn't have these kinds of proofs, then she can make as much noises as she wants, but nobody is going to listen to her, trust me. Millions of US citizens have tried this once their marriage failed but no-one was able to be succeed without those kinds of convincing proofs. Her words or something from her friends/family cannot use to prove an immigration fraud....afterall USCIS would need to prove their case in immigration court when they will try to revoke and deport an alien.
I'm more than sure that she (and even her attorney, friends, or family) will try to scare you and will tell you this and that but they don't even know themselves that INS will not listen to them and won't act at all without a convincing proof. Like I say, they don't even know this. So obviously, they will tell you all the nine yards to keep an upper hand but the truth is they cannot make your green card to be revoked. Period.
So, don't worry at all about your wife to have making empty threats in respect to revoking your green card. However, I must advise you to completely cut all the connection with your wife like no phone call no matter how important it would be for you to talk with her, no seeing her and move out the marital house as soon as possible. Why? Because if you don't do what I say here then I'm sure she will call police and/or get a restraining order on you...sooner or later. Every court across the US always gives a restraining order to a woman...99.99% of times even if there won't be any finding of domestic violence crime/allegations. If she ever gets to court to ask for a restraining order against you then it's a done-deal that she would get the restraining order. Trust me on that. And once she gets a restraining order then you will ALWAYS be on her mercy to not to deported. Why? She can always make a false claim that you violated the restraining order which I'm sure she will do just that given she has already been threatenning you for revoking your green card and other stuffs. Besides, people always do whatever they could when they are angry or scorned.
Once you are found in violation of restraining order then you are done. Meaning, not only your green card would get revoked and you will be deported but also you can never be allowed back to the US in any category except refugee/asylum case. Again, violation of a restraining order is done-deal deportatable crime under INA sec. 237
Thus, it's very important for you not to communicate with her so that she could not claim anything to get a restraining order; otherwise you will be responsible for your own mistakes...
Good luck...