Can my son join us after our GC?

ntumnui

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A friend enrolled my wife and I for the dv which we won!! Unfortunately my son was not enrolled with us and so we relocated to the U.S without him. Our GC is expected by the end of the month.How soon can my son join us?
 
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Is he under 21 and did you mention him on the DV application?

Yes he is 14. Since at the time we were enrolled for the dv (2008) no mention was made of him, we were cautioned not to do so after we won. The rules of the game state clearly that we will be eliminated if the name of a child is added except the child was born after we had enrolled for the dv. Which is not the case.
 
How feasible is it for him to obtain a visitors visa and visit during summer holidays for example? When do you start the count down to the 5 years?And finally during the count down period when is it most appropriate to file at the end or some time before the end of the five years. These five years sound a real long wait.
 
Withhold evidence about your son was a bad idea. Get a lawyer. When they find out (and they will) you might get in trouble.
 
How feasible is it for him to obtain a visitors visa and visit during summer holidays for example?
Probably impossible, given that he is a minor and his parents now live permanently in the US.
When do you start the count down to the 5 years?
When you file the I-130 for him, which you can do right now. But since you were required to list all your children on the DV application even if you didn't plan to bring them to the US with you, filing for him could result in you being deported for lying on the DV application. So get a lawyer before you decide to file for him.
And finally during the count down period when is it most appropriate to file at the end or some time before the end of the five years. These five years sound a real long wait.
It is not really a countdown period; the queue has 5 years worth of people waiting in it, there is no mandatory waiting period per se. Depending on how fast they process people in the upcoming years, it could take somewhat more or less than 5 years for you.
 
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Hello guys,
i received my Gc this afternoon and discovered i am still full of mixed feelings: Happy for our cards but really haunted by the fact that i left my son behind. It sounds to me like i have traded my son for greener pasture isn`t it? What a shame!!!
The note accompanying my green card states: "you can sponsor the immigration of certain relatives -see form I-130 for information". I quickly rushed to find out what this form is all about and discovered that the 5 year wait is not indicated or differently put, it sounds like i could apply for my son right now!!!
But then when i remember Jackolantern`s advice on this issue i really really quiver. Says Jackolantern:
" When you file the I-130 for him, which you can do right now. But since you were required to list all your children on the DV application even if you didn't plan to bring them to the US with you, filing for him could result in you being deported for lying on the DV application. So get a lawyer before you decide to file for him."
Its like one is pulled up between the devil and the deep blue sea.
 
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The note accompanying my green card states: "you can sponsor the immigration of certain relatives -see form I-130 for information". I quickly rushed to find out what this form is all about and discovered that the 5 year wait is not indicated or differently put, it sounds like i could apply for my son right now!!!
You can file the I-130 application now, but it will still take approx. 5 years before your son would be given an immigrant visa (if they would even approve it in your circumstances) because they have to process the queue of people who are already waiting. The 5-year waiting period is the time you can expect to wait after you apply before your son can immigrate; it's not about waiting 5 years before you apply. And 5 years is not written into law, that just happens to be the length of the backlog at this time. They are now approving green cards for people who filed their I-130 in this category in 2003.
 
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Thats more relieving jacko. When you put the blame on a different person for being separated from your son, the haunt is not as intense. Hope nobody else ever gets to go through this.
 
I was cautioned by friends most of whom had moved to the US on dv tickets. I later read it on myself ( i cannot remember the site) and it was clearly stated that all adjustments to family status done after applying for dv may lead to the disqualification of the winner except such a change took place after you had enrolled for the dv. This simply implies you could add dependent (spouse or child) to your file if you got married or had a child after you had played the dv. But if on the contrary any of the above persons existed but you only indicate after you have the dv you will be disqualified. Hope i am right.
 
Now you did a false information in your application (have no son in the time you actually have). The consequences to that is not that simple. What are you going to do when you apply for citizenship 5 years ahead. Are you going to hide him again or are you going to say I remembered him now. The only way is to fix this. You have to say the truth and say that frankly to the USCIS. If some false information discovered even after citizeship, every thing will be revoked.
 
Why was the son left out in the first place?
A relative played for us. At that time he did not have a picture for my son and did insist on having it because he thought we could get him on the roll at any time along the line if we were preselected and this is where we are on the story.
 
mmed is right, you better fix this now before USCIS finds out down the road. Get an attorney. Maybe you can amend your submission. If thats possible it has to happen before the fiscal year is over (October) for him to join you. Go see a lawyer.
 
do you mean i should formally go and ask to be deported? Going back to the immigration guys now sounds to me like a formal invitation for deportation.
 
A relative played for us. At that time he did not have a picture for my son and did insist on having it because he thought we could get him on the roll at any time along the line if we were preselected and this is where we are on the story.
I suppose you meant "did NOT insist"?

Painful lesson learned: Never blindly trust a relative or even a lawyer to handle your legal or financial matters without doing the work to understand the situation and the rules to the best of your ability. You are the one who will suffer if they screw up, not them.
 
You are doubly right!! I actually meant `did not insist` and secondly i am learning my lesson the bitter way. Just wondering how i can successfull circumnavigate this as soon as possible. Thanks so much for your continuous reactions.
 
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