Confused? Way no. But you make an interesting point. Here is what I think about living in US. I feel that I belong here regardless of how I've been treated. I do not care much how I am treated, it is much like weather - if you don't like it, you move somewhere else. In some sense I even do not live in US - I live in my 2000 sq. feet house which just happened to be located in this country. So US is more like a scenery, a very good looking and pleasing scenery which I observe. The feeling of belonging comes from a simple fact that I like this place. I would even call this place motherland because of this simple fact American? Of course I am not. And I will never be one. But the only thing that matters is exactly how I feel. If CIS decides that I have to leave, that does not mean that I will never live here.You seem confused. You have a family and US citizen kids, and in your years here you've been treated like an American. So you feel like you "belong". You are not an American. It won't matter how you "feel" and where you "belong". If USCIS doesn't give you permission to stay here, you'll have to leave.
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