maraL
Ensure you read the instructions of each form very very carefully before filing and write down the important points. If you make no initial mistakes, then your case should at least proceed averagely fast. I read, re-read, & re-read the instructions.
Oh, how I hear you on this one... I got kind of relaxed with the forms since I literally did all of our paperwork from day 1..even with the removal proceedings(yes we even attacked that without an attorney)..and then i managed to check the wrong box on the I485,how stupid of me...It wass a nightmare when I got my first NOA and it said rejected..my heart sank...I was on the phone with USCIS for 3 hours,literally until we figured out what the problem was..DAMN BOX B instead of BOX A..omg I was soooo mad at myself
I went throught everything like 50 time that night and sent it back out the next morning.
This is not something I have shared with anyone here but the first time I applied for my papers was last year.
Around the same time an acquaintance from my mother-in-laws side needed help as they got into trouble with the CPS :/
My hubby and I took in their 1.5 yr old twin boys for almost over a month and with them in the house life was a roller coaster, amongst other things going all over the place, our mail accumulated over that period.
When we did finally check the mail, all my stuff was sent right back and when I saw that packet, my heart sank to my feet!...reason : I had used an outdated I-485 form.
I was so angry at myself...considering I was stupid enough to go and pay for forms that are free to download on the USCIS website. But here I sit now, months after that incident and post my hubby's accident at work... smiling and thanking God that we are slowly but steadily progressing towards our goals...
Hang in there, each one of us, for in time we all will see the results.
"Patience" is the key

and with a wonderful group that we have here, each day passes with smiles and hugs!