Thanks for answering.
Lax, it is all about consequences. Parents are responsible for children, not the US taxpayers. If you use the argument that children "deserve" a chance to get legalization, then your rationale is flawed right there;how about children who did not come here ? How about millions of poor and well intentioned people who stayed in poor countries ? In my view they deserve more chances than those who jumped fences.
Moreover, if you talk about merits and who deserves what, then it is when you guys don't have a chance for any rewards. The Congress is supposed to work in countermeasures that addresses need of Citizens of the United States first. If so, then it is clear that granting legalization to you - through a loophole or otherwise - won't work because that amounts to amnesty, and that is well known it is just a magnet to attract more illegals which harms the country.
Listen, at certain point, children left your home country to come here. People sold houses back home, people left schools back home. The reverse trip and operation is doable and possible. You know it. After seven years in this country, with property here, thousands of dollars in the medicare system (which I cannot withdraw), one son and the next one coming, can I go home at anytime if the USCIS decides to kill my application, perhaps giving priority to yours (245i or what have you) ? Of course I should plan for it. By the way, the day that happens is when this country doesn't deserve good people anymore. This country is becoming more and more a photocopy of a third world country, full or corruption and favoritsm.
If America is still America and law is in control, then a real solution for this would be by making the US representatives talk to the respective government of your country and make a "Dream Act" back home, in which you could be welcomed there with a special reintegration program, cultural training, etc.
I also had my Dream and all the best universities game in this country was a "no". No for in-state tuition, no for scholarships, no for nothing. That made me suspend my MBA from a top US school just because I didn't have a chance to finish it. That is because I pay every single freaking year thousands of taxes and I don't get a dime in benefits while I was on this H1B thing.
Lax, people are fed up with the idea that "you deserve". Credits need to be given where credit is due. You have no credits and yet you are getting all the red carpet, and the legal people who are playing by the rules are getting just a finger. Many people are getting tired of you guys.