Miss America,
No matter what you do with your personal life, we do not get involved in anyway on that one, but I would like to express my advice on the immigration question you posed.
I know a green card holder who has been married to 4 ladies during the past 30 years.
*The first wife passed away and left 4 children in her home country (eventually he filed i'130 for the youngest child and the other 3 were left behind because of family problems.. nowdays he, became US citizen, filed i-130 for 2 children and their families CAT3 waiting currently, the last child got her green card through her ex-cuban husband.)
*The second wife and her 2 children: he filed i'130 for them and they were ready to move to US in 10 years after she changed her address! (2 years delay.)
*The third wife, was never interested altough their only daughter was (the girl came here by herself after he filed i-130 and it all went trough with her visa) now she's in the US military for over 7 years!
And finally the fourth wife took advantage of him (again) filed i-130 for her and her 2 kids and came to live here after a 7 years wating period.
LESSON 1: he never lived with them in US, only in their native country.
LESSON 2: he never had to fill an affidavit of support, somebody else was always sponsoring for him.
LESSON 3: every time he had to answer the question "have you ever petitioned any other person?" he answered NO. all i-130s have been approved.
He did these things with a difference of 2 years between wife-periods.
Nowdays, he got married again (5th wife!) with the purpose of helping an old time friend to get a visa, but this time nobody was going to sponsor them; therefore, the process was suspended. He is a US citizen, and does not live here in US.
Miss American.. bring out your conclusion on this one..