How to withdraw the GC application?

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may2009tx

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I applied GC based on marriage, and got the notice of the interview. But the
US citizen spouse can not make for the interview because of the pressure from her family.

I postponed the interview and I want to withdraw the application to avoid
the record of the denial of my application. How to withdraw the GC
application based on marriage? Can I do it online?
 
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Your spouse will have to withdraw the immigration petition since he/she is the one filed it, not you. He/she can go to a the nearest field office and ask assistance there in withdrawing the petition. Also, he/she could send a letter requesting it to the address of the service center - he/she would have to include a copy of the receipt notice.
 
TheRealCanadian said:
The alien filed the I-485, not the US citizen spouse.

Seems like he married a child, not a woman.
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If I am not mistaken, the interview in a marriage based petition is an I-130 procedure. The interview that the OP is talking about is a result of the I130 filed by the USC spouse, not the 485 filed by the OP - that's why USC spouse is required to appear at the interview.

So, once again, I think it's the USC spouse who would have to withdraw I130 if the OP doesn't want the visa petition to be denied.
 
Yes, you are right. My wife does not want to go to the interview. So, she has to withdraw the I130 application.
She does not want to sponsor my green card; she does not want to divorce me either; she wants to get pregnant. She asks me to take NIW track.
I do not really understand the reason she did this.
I think my case is a very weird case. I do not know anybody else had the similar situation?
I do not want to divorce her either. We are fine about everything except the GC.
I want to move to the other city.
 
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^^^
WERD!

Do you think she (and her family) is suspicious that you married her for GC? May be that's why she wants to be sure by trying to conceive your baby.
 
She said that she and her family are suspicious that I married her for GC. So, I have to apply GC with NIW track to prove that I am not using her. "If I apply it for you, my family will laugh at me." she said.
She said that she NEVER apply GC for me even after we have a baby, even if I lost my job.
That broke my heart.
Now, I do not know I should stay or leave, I should have a child with her or not.
She cooked for me, she is nice to me. She just does NOT apply GC for me.
Sometimes in the midnight, I looked at her baby face, I wanted to say: baby, you sleep so quietly, you do not know how painful I am. I will cry if I leave you.
Yes, I can take NIW track. But I will not be happy.
 
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may2009tx said:
She said that she NEVER apply GC for me even after we have a baby, even if I lost my job. That broke my heart
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You've received a free insight into your future.

Now, I do not know I should stay or leave, I should have a child with her or not.
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Are you seriously asking this question????

She cooked for me, she is nice to me. She just does NOT apply GC for me.
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There are many women I have known in my life who were nice to me and cook for me. That alone does not a spouse make. It is clear by her actions that she's not mature enough to be married to you (worried about being laughed it), and if she refuses to file for you even if you lose your job, what does that mean?

Would she see the father of her child deported without her lifting a finger? Seriously?

This will not end well.
 
may2009tx said:
She said that she and her family are suspicious that I married her for GC. So, I have to apply GC with NIW track to prove that I am not using her. "If I apply it for you, my family will laugh at me." she said.
She said that she NEVER apply GC for me even after we have a baby, even if I lost my job.
That broke my heart.
Now, I do not know I should stay or leave, I should have a child with her or not.
She cooked for me, she is nice to me. She just does NOT apply GC for me.
Sometimes in the midnight, I looked at her baby face, I wanted to say: baby, you sleep so quietly, you do not know how painful I am. I will cry if I leave you.
Yes, I can take NIW track. But I will not be happy.
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How long have you been married to this woman? Did you mention to her that you want to apply for GC as soon as you got married? Sorry about your situation and don't make a baby with this woman, especially when you are in this kind of a tough situation. :(
 
Exactly... If she is testing you during the times you need her the most - WTF?

Did you tell her that you won't get a full GC right away and that both would have to apply together 2 years later?
 
Thank you guys for your suggestions here, which made me feel better. To the questions,
1. I have not made a decision yet about what I am going to do. I would rather move very cautiously, try to avoid hurting anyone. But, if I make a decision, I will never change.
2. We have knew each other for almost three years and got married one year ago.
3. I do not think she is testing me even she did say she did not totally trust me. (why marry me if you do not trust me? becaues you were lonely? ) I would rather believe her story that her family would laugh at her if she filed the application for me.
 
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may2009tx said:
Thank you guys for your suggestions here, which made me feel better. To the questions,
1. I have not made a decision yet about what I am going to do. I would rather move very cautiously, try to avoid hurting anyone. But, if I make a decision, I will never change.
2. We have knew each other for almost three years and got married one year ago.
3. I do not think she is testing me even she did say she did not totally trust me. (why marry me if you do not trust me? becaues you were lonely? ) I would rather believe her story that her family would laugh at her if she filed the application for me.
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Man...this has the making of a disaster written all over it...:rolleyes: You need to clearly think about this issue thoroughly before doing anything or you will be hurt in the process...:eek: I think you need to satisfy your wife in other ways....:D
 
I asked her last night, her answer was:
1. If I get deported and she is pregnant, she will "save" me.
2. I am the biggest "wolf" in her life, she is so scared of her situation---She is not a confident girl at all.

I believe that she is afraid that I will run away after I get GC from her. Family pressure is her excuse. She does not financially depend on me---she makes 100K a year.
 
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What is your reason to be still wanting to be with her? You have bigger problems on other fronts compared to your potential immigration woes. Good luck!!!

may2009tx said:
I believe that she is afraid that I will run away once I get GC from her. Family pressure is her excuse.
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Looks like she is using you to get a kid, not you using her for a green card. Divorce her, and file the NIW for yourself. If you don't divorce now, based on the way she is acting she's going to divorce you within the next one or two years anyway. She doesn't love you or trust you.
 
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