patty579 said:
Johnny Cash,
thanks for your detailed explanation.
I guess I won't bother applying for it then. I just wish I would get my EAD soon so I can apply for my Social...
You're very much welcome.
Forget about EAD and ITIN now because I see you are going to have your interview next month. If everything would go well in your AOS interview, you will become a LPR at the same day. You can then go to SSA to apply for SSN with your passport that would have a stamp of your temporary status in this country.
Besides, even if you decide to file for ITIN, you are not going to get it by the end of next month. That means, you will be done with your interview before you get ITIN if you choose to apply for it.
I also see that you are fussing about not being having some joint bills, then just don't worry so much about them. Do your best. There is no law/rule that you have to have ALL the bills or things jointly. Sometimes people just cannot have EVERYTHING together with their spouse. Adjudication officers know that. My family members are adjudication officers, so I know this very well. Plus, I am a former immigration attorney who also worked for State sponsored Immigration Advocacy agency at one time wherein I was specialized in VAWA cases. So much for a 30 yrs old, eh?
However, you have to have something jointly so that officer could write down on your application before approving it to save his/her job in the future. Just try your best to get as many as jointly things you could. If there is no big age difference between you and your spouse, you will be fine, with or without enough joint bills/documents. The main documents are-tax returns, life insurance policy, Wills, Health Insurance, and bank/credit account.
There is something that got my attention while reading some of your posts on this thread. You said that you came here on B-2 visa, then I wonder why you needed B-2 visa? Aren’t you a German? Or you were just living in Germany when you met your husband? Germans don’t need visa to come to US for a visit as Germany is under US Visa Waiver Program. That means, Germans don't need visa to visit to US for 90 days.
Just a piece of advice, don’t ever mention to Adjudication officer during your interview that you were your husband's girlfriend from Germany; otherwise your AOS will be denied for having pre-intent to immigrate to US and for using B-2 visa to come here for immigrant intent which is against immigration laws. This is one of the areas that adjudication officers look into it to deny an AOS.
I cannot tell you much on this on a public forum (and you know why) but in short-just tell them that you met him in Germany but you guys were just friends. Or you may say that you met him here while visiting one of your friends(his sister) and later fell in love with him. That is. Officer most probably will ask you about how and when you met your husband. So, be careful before telling/disclosing anything on it since it could be a deal breaker in your case.
Gutes Glück in Ihrem AOS Interview folgender Monat.