we are scheduled to go to the 1st AOS interview. but my wife and i had a huge fight and she(us citizen) is threatening me saying she wouldn't go to interview for me. do u guys think i can get married with another girl(us citizen) and do the process again? please help me....
URGENT HELP NEEDED: my wife is threathing me
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dr_iha do they give u 10year green card? i thought they give u 2year card first.
i like her but she is real pain in the ass some times.
i like her but she is real pain in the ass some times.
No. If you have been married for over 2 years at the time your AOS is approved, you get a 10-year green card.
Al Southner
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Get your head out your butt...
NJ,
You can't have both things at the same time: your wife and pain in the ass. You can have your wife or a pain the ass...
I wonder how you can already think about fleeing to another woman so that you can apply for a greencard again.... 
If your wife is giving a hard time over a greencard, and you think of leaving, then I wonder what will happen the day she closes shop and your visit to south of the border is denied... are you going to find a hooker to meet your needs? 
Marriage is not for juveniles or kids. When you said I do in front of your friends, little did you knew that it involved much more than sex, didn't you? After the sex, your wife has other needs which you have to meet, emotional and many other issues. So... enjoy your wife and stop being a cry baby... which is better because it is not married like a big man with big balls, but has a chicken brain...
Lastly, get your head and brain out of your ass, and focus on the most important things in life, being married and making a success out of your marriage, but I wonder if you have the fortitude to stay the race for another 45-70 yrs
As for Dr_LHA, he got a 10 yrs greencard because even after his wife threatened to not got to the interview with him, he never uttered a ridiculous and stupid word of needing to flee for another woman, so USCIS decided to reward him for being man.... All soft men will be destroyed by USCIS in a big lake of fire... which won't destroy hell...cause it froze long time ago....
NJ,
You can't have both things at the same time: your wife and pain in the ass. You can have your wife or a pain the ass...
I wonder how you can already think about fleeing to another woman so that you can apply for a greencard again.... If your wife is giving a hard time over a greencard, and you think of leaving, then I wonder what will happen the day she closes shop and your visit to south of the border is denied... are you going to find a hooker to meet your needs? Marriage is not for juveniles or kids. When you said I do in front of your friends, little did you knew that it involved much more than sex, didn't you?
After the sex, your wife has other needs which you have to meet, emotional and many other issues. So... enjoy your wife and stop being a cry baby... which is better because it is not married like a big man with big balls, but has a chicken brain... Lastly, get your head and brain out of your ass, and focus on the most important things in life, being married and making a success out of your marriage, but I wonder if you have the fortitude to stay the race for another 45-70 yrs
As for Dr_LHA, he got a 10 yrs greencard because even after his wife threatened to not got to the interview with him, he never uttered a ridiculous and stupid word of needing to flee for another woman, so USCIS decided to reward him for being man....
All soft men will be destroyed by USCIS in a big lake of fire... which won't destroy hell...cause it froze long time ago....cindywang16
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sorry to say this.
But it doesn't sounds like your wife love you either.
If she loves you, she won't want you get deported and she will want to go to interview with you.
You know, even she goes to interview with you this time. 2 years later, you will need her to go with you again to renew it, I think. or at least you have to stay married to her until than.
Are you sure you can stay with this pain in the *-^" this long?
Regarding about finding another USC to get your GC, in general, yes, you can. Just file it again after you divorce your current wife and married the new bride.
But it doesn't sounds like your wife love you either.
If she loves you, she won't want you get deported and she will want to go to interview with you.
You know, even she goes to interview with you this time. 2 years later, you will need her to go with you again to renew it, I think.
or at least you have to stay married to her until than.Are you sure you can stay with this pain in the *-^"
this long?Regarding about finding another USC to get your GC, in general, yes, you can. Just file it again after you divorce your current wife and married the new bride.
Al Southner
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Are u a criminals?
Cindy,
What you are advocating here is clearly a violation of the law...
His decision to divorce and marry another woman, purely to file for greencard is an attempt to evade the immigration laws of the US. This act is punishable by jail time and fine or both, and deportation to country of origin, but USCIS can use own discretion to deport him to the North Pole.
Lastly, he is going to be permanently barred from ever setting his foot in the US..
sorry to say this.
But it doesn't sounds like your wife love you either.
If she loves you, she won't want you get deported and she will want to go to interview with you.
You know, even she goes to interview with you this time. 2 years later, you will need her to go with you again to renew it, I think.
Are you sure you can stay with this pain in the *-^"
Regarding about finding another USC to get your GC, in general, yes, you can. Just file it again after you divorce your current wife and married the new bride.
Cindy,
What you are advocating here is clearly a violation of the law...
His decision to divorce and marry another woman, purely to file for greencard is an attempt to evade the immigration laws of the US. This act is punishable by jail time and fine or both, and deportation to country of origin, but USCIS can use own discretion to deport him to the North Pole.
Lastly, he is going to be permanently barred from ever setting his foot in the US..
As for Dr_LHA, he got a 10 yrs greencard because even after his wife threatened to not got to the interview with him, he never uttered a ridiculous and stupid word of needing to flee for another woman, so USCIS decided to reward him for being man....
Of course the real reason I got a ten year green card was because I married my wife for love, and not for a green card. I was married to her for over 2 years before I even got around to filing for a Green Card.
cindywang16
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Cindy,
What you are advocating here is clearly a violation of the law...
His decision to divorce and marry another woman, purely to file for greencard is an attempt to evade the immigration laws of the US. This act is punishable by jail time and fine or both, and deportation to country of origin, but USCIS can use own discretion to deport him to the North Pole.
Lastly, he is going to be permanently barred from ever setting his foot in the US..
I was just simply telling him the truth. And let him know he might not going to make it. Because of the 2 year renewal. His plan is not working
We see people in this forum haven't finish the divorce process with the ex and already planning next GC application.
that is the fact. Right?So, it happen. We never know...
Addie_Goodvibes
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I Seriously Doubt second time around would go with out serious scrutiny,
Seems to me that you should be concerned about your situation with your wife.
Or did you marry her simply for the GC?
Seems to me that you are trying to intentionally obtain Fraudulent GC?
www.immigrationcounters.com
Seems to me that you should be concerned about your situation with your wife.
Or did you marry her simply for the GC?
Seems to me that you are trying to intentionally obtain Fraudulent GC?
www.immigrationcounters.com
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Al Southner
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Cindy, u a entitled to your own opinion, but not own facts..
Cindy,
Let me use the logic which you seem to imply in your response, so that I can test the education system of this might country, shall we? First of all, I am not sure which truth you are talking about... but you are entitled to your own truth..
The fact that people plan their next green card application whilst still married to their first spouse does not make is right or morally acceptable, plus it is a repugnant behavior on the part of those people. Lets get to your logic: If you are stopped by a state trooper for going at 89 mph in a 65mph, are you going to tell the state trooper that since your are not the first person to break the law, your actions are justified because other people have been broken the law in the past? As a result, the state trooper should not give you a speeding ticket and charge you with reckless driving? This is an equivalent of your position, because since other people plan their next greencard application while being disingeneous in their marital relationship, then this guy is also justified in finding another American whom he can marry, so that he can get his greencard. However, he ought to ignore the consequences of the law because other people have done this in the past. No way, he is supposed to stay married, not for the greencard, but because he decided to marry his wife, who he knew was a pain in the ass before they got married, but the allure of the greencard was too much to turn down. I can see it through his post.
Cindy, you are entitled to your own opinion, but not your own facts. Moreover, facts are very stubborn.
It is a fact that getting married to evade the immigration laws of the US is a crime, punishable by jail time, fine or both, plus imprisonment, and after serving time, deportable to own country.
NJ, If you want to enter into the annals of history of those who have been caught and prosecuted by USCIS, then follow the advise which Cindy is espousing here, but you are going to be only one serving time in state prison while she enjoys her life with her husband...
I was just simply telling him the truth. And let him know he might not going to make it. Because of the 2 year renewal. His plan is not working
We see people in this forum haven't finish the divorce process with the ex and already planning next GC application.
So, it happen. We never know...
Cindy,
Let me use the logic which you seem to imply in your response, so that I can test the education system of this might country, shall we?
First of all, I am not sure which truth you are talking about... but you are entitled to your own truth.. The fact that people plan their next green card application whilst still married to their first spouse does not make is right or morally acceptable, plus it is a repugnant behavior on the part of those people. Lets get to your logic: If you are stopped by a state trooper for going at 89 mph in a 65mph, are you going to tell the state trooper that since your are not the first person to break the law, your actions are justified because other people have been broken the law in the past? As a result, the state trooper should not give you a speeding ticket and charge you with reckless driving? This is an equivalent of your position, because since other people plan their next greencard application while being disingeneous in their marital relationship, then this guy is also justified in finding another American whom he can marry, so that he can get his greencard.
However, he ought to ignore the consequences of the law because other people have done this in the past. No way, he is supposed to stay married, not for the greencard, but because he decided to marry his wife, who he knew was a pain in the ass before they got married, but the allure of the greencard was too much to turn down. I can see it through his post.Cindy, you are entitled to your own opinion, but not your own facts. Moreover, facts are very stubborn.
It is a fact that getting married to evade the immigration laws of the US is a crime, punishable by jail time, fine or both, plus imprisonment, and after serving time, deportable to own country. NJ, If you want to enter into the annals of history of those who have been caught and prosecuted by USCIS, then follow the advise which Cindy is espousing here, but you are going to be only one serving time in state prison while she enjoys her life with her husband...
Al Southner
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Enjoy your wife...shall you...
NJ,
Sleeping in the same bed doesn't cure marital problems. You both need to get some counselling and work on making this marriage a success, not for the greencard only, but for the future of your own vows.
I can't give you anything more than, stay married and don't do anything stupid or land yourself in jail... I hope you and your wife will work on being a young couple striving to achieve all the dreams you have, except the dream of divorcing her and marrying someone else....
Love your wife, even if she is a pain your nuts.... At least, she is still your wife...
haha don't fight guys~ i started sleeping with her in the bed again. thank you for your support! we are just too young i guess
NJ,
Sleeping in the same bed doesn't cure marital problems.
You both need to get some counselling and work on making this marriage a success, not for the greencard only, but for the future of your own vows. I can't give you anything more than, stay married and don't do anything stupid or land yourself in jail...
I hope you and your wife will work on being a young couple striving to achieve all the dreams you have, except the dream of divorcing her and marrying someone else.... Love your wife, even if she is a pain your nuts....
At least, she is still your wife... I tried to keep off this thread .. but I guess some of what NJ posted made me write...
NJ - its possible you are young and got married, but my suggestion would be "do NOT fool around with marriage". Its way too precious to be treated the way you are your wife are now. Hopefully you will grow up and understand the true meaning of love, marriage and a lifetime bond.
Secondly, please do NOT play with the law. It will cause damage not only to you, but other innocent applicants, who are genuine!!
i hope and pray things work out for you and your wife... :0)
Good Luck!
NJ - its possible you are young and got married, but my suggestion would be "do NOT fool around with marriage". Its way too precious to be treated the way you are your wife are now. Hopefully you will grow up and understand the true meaning of love, marriage and a lifetime bond.
Secondly, please do NOT play with the law. It will cause damage not only to you, but other innocent applicants, who are genuine!!
i hope and pray things work out for you and your wife... :0)
Good Luck!
Triple Citizen
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Njoppa,
Is a GC worth that much to you that after one failed marriage to a "pain in the ass", you are willing to undergo another marriage to a different potential "pain in the ass"?
Is a GC worth that much to you that after one failed marriage to a "pain in the ass", you are willing to undergo another marriage to a different potential "pain in the ass"?