Well you cannot be adamant that the reason that NOT a single note on people getting deported for "this reason" - is because that people are shy/embarrassed to talk about it. thats extending the probabilities to its limits.
anyways thats my take- its below me to go into a word war on that.
the reason iam posting is to have alternate views for people who are already in a situation wherein its too late to follow the "be with the sponsorer"
what is the use in ranting over and over again to someone who is not with the sponsorer anymore - to say that ur screwed if u dont stay with the sponsorer.
what u say is good for people who have an option to stay with the sponsorer
but "ranting" to others who cant.
and its good to always have different real opinions.
and what is my "risky beaviuour" iam not sure. you and I may not be in a bad position - but always remember this forum is to help people who are looking for guidance.
And if the guidance is going to be ONLY the strict intrepretation of the law- its good to be told once, twice, thrice - but should not be used again and again to mask other peoples opinion. people are not idiots- even if they see a posting that says its fine to quit the sponsorer immediately they will always go back and check ur original posting to get an alternate view.
and nobody told a good arguement should not be had on this issue. (but the arguement should not be one-sided)
so the difference is ur opinion on this is right and so does others opinion- but if u keep on posting ur opinion on each and every thread - a person reading the whole forum would be bombarded with ur opinion 100 to 1.
the point is not to take anything personal - so dont make it personal.
in fact i have been telling all my friends who have a choice to stay with the employer to stay as long as possible. but id o have people who cannot stay with their employers and i dont want to tell them - go and give back ur green card to UCSIS and go back to ur country.
JoeF said:
And you think that these people who know someone who know someone ... would get told by somebody they barely know that they were deported, and why?
That's not something to be proud of to tell your collegues, etc.
Nobody throws hapless people in turmoil. All I and others are doing is raising awareness so people don't end up being deported.
Why people object to raising awareness of such issues is beyond me.
I personally don't care what you do or not do with your life. If you want to risk your future in the US, fine. It is your life, and you are the only one responsible for your life. Just don't say nobody warned you.
However, if you advise others to follow your example of gambling with the future in the US, then you will find my objections to it. If you don't like to be "lectured", then just don't advise other people to follow your risky behavior.
Oh, and the spirit of the law much more than the word of the law is to stay with the employer for some time.