Hi, just wanted to thank everybody for the interesting discussion, and to apologize for the use of the word "suspicious" - it seems that some people's feelings were hurt and I certainly didn't mean to do that... Sm1smom, SusieQQQ - I really appreciate both you knowledge and common sense and probably just chose a wrong word because English is not my mother tongue... also my husband agrees with you that we shouldn't wait too much, so if I see that it doesn't go fast enough I will probably start to look for a job myself... Anyway thanks again everybody for your input!