germangirl
New Member
First of all;
Hi everyone, and thank you soo much for having this awesome place, for people in need to find help and advise!
I've been reading almost every thread and found a lot of helpful information but am hoping that maybe someone can give me some more specific advise regarding my situation...any help is deeply appreciated!
Alright, here I go;
I met my USC husband in 2004, We had a child in June 2005, got married in February 2007 (we wanted a big wedding but could never afford it - so finally we just went to the County office when we where advised to "just get it done").
I got my conditional GC in February 2007 as well and it will "expire" February 2009.
Now since then a lot of things have changed, my husband decided to leave me and the baby, circa 6 months after we got married - I tried to fix things for a while, he finally made me move out of OUR apartment (so his new GF had a place to stay) in Nov '07.
We have been "separated" since and are NOT on good terms at all, he will not cooperate when my 2 year GC anniversary comes up.
He told me he wants a divorce, but can't afford it so we're still "legally" married. I want a divorce, have the mends to pay for it, but am not sure how it will affect my status.
So I guess the question I have is, I know for 100% that he will not participate in anything to do with my immigration, so I'm wondering should I wait to divorce him until Feb '09 or would it be better to get it over with now?
Thanks in advance for your help!
Best Regards & have a wonderful Day
Hi everyone, and thank you soo much for having this awesome place, for people in need to find help and advise!
I've been reading almost every thread and found a lot of helpful information but am hoping that maybe someone can give me some more specific advise regarding my situation...any help is deeply appreciated!
Alright, here I go;
I met my USC husband in 2004, We had a child in June 2005, got married in February 2007 (we wanted a big wedding but could never afford it - so finally we just went to the County office when we where advised to "just get it done").
I got my conditional GC in February 2007 as well and it will "expire" February 2009.
Now since then a lot of things have changed, my husband decided to leave me and the baby, circa 6 months after we got married - I tried to fix things for a while, he finally made me move out of OUR apartment (so his new GF had a place to stay) in Nov '07.
We have been "separated" since and are NOT on good terms at all, he will not cooperate when my 2 year GC anniversary comes up.
He told me he wants a divorce, but can't afford it so we're still "legally" married. I want a divorce, have the mends to pay for it, but am not sure how it will affect my status.
So I guess the question I have is, I know for 100% that he will not participate in anything to do with my immigration, so I'm wondering should I wait to divorce him until Feb '09 or would it be better to get it over with now?
Thanks in advance for your help!
Best Regards & have a wonderful Day