Confused Aby
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Please help me…I am so confused I don’t know what to do. I don’t have the money right now to see a lawyer.
I got married in 2005 to a USC after we dated for several months. When we met he told me he was 23, had a bachelor’s degree and had a job. I was 25, had a bachelors degree and was in the Kaplan program, preparing to take the MCAT for medical school.
I initially came to the US with an F-1 visa, completed a BS degree, and went back for another F-1 to pursue an MS degree. I dropped out of the MS degree because I wanted to pursue medicine.
After marriage I found out his license was fake when we had to use his birth certificate for the I-485. He was actually 19, and did not go to college after high school. Almost everything about him is fake, and the diploma he had given to his employer was purchased from the internet. Our relationship was so strained that when we went for the immigration interview, the interviewer said she think our marriage was fraud and will need more info. She said they would write us a letter telling us what was needed. We did not have an attorney
Well, the letter never came. I helped him register at a community college to take classes, but he dropped out. I got accepted into an optometry program in another city so I moved there and we would see each other every 2 weekends. Half way into my first semester, he almost died and doctors discovered he has a life threatening disease. I quit school and moved back to help him. We moved into his mother’s house since none of us were working. He never allowed us to file taxes together because he said he’ll get more money back as single, he filed for social security disability income as single just to get more money. His brother was arrested and now serving 10 years in jail for something that my husband and his mother refused to tell me. It turns out they were selling drugs.
That was it for me…I moved out and I’m hiding my location from him because he knows that I’m aware of the illegal stuff they are involved in.
I went back to school with the help of friends and family who are assisting me with tuition. I will graduate at the end of the year with a Masters degree
What are my options now in terms of my adjustment of status through marriage since the marriage is practically over? My employment card was not renewed. The online status for my case has not change since the invitation for interview in 2006.
I got married in 2005 to a USC after we dated for several months. When we met he told me he was 23, had a bachelor’s degree and had a job. I was 25, had a bachelors degree and was in the Kaplan program, preparing to take the MCAT for medical school.
I initially came to the US with an F-1 visa, completed a BS degree, and went back for another F-1 to pursue an MS degree. I dropped out of the MS degree because I wanted to pursue medicine.
After marriage I found out his license was fake when we had to use his birth certificate for the I-485. He was actually 19, and did not go to college after high school. Almost everything about him is fake, and the diploma he had given to his employer was purchased from the internet. Our relationship was so strained that when we went for the immigration interview, the interviewer said she think our marriage was fraud and will need more info. She said they would write us a letter telling us what was needed. We did not have an attorney
Well, the letter never came. I helped him register at a community college to take classes, but he dropped out. I got accepted into an optometry program in another city so I moved there and we would see each other every 2 weekends. Half way into my first semester, he almost died and doctors discovered he has a life threatening disease. I quit school and moved back to help him. We moved into his mother’s house since none of us were working. He never allowed us to file taxes together because he said he’ll get more money back as single, he filed for social security disability income as single just to get more money. His brother was arrested and now serving 10 years in jail for something that my husband and his mother refused to tell me. It turns out they were selling drugs.
That was it for me…I moved out and I’m hiding my location from him because he knows that I’m aware of the illegal stuff they are involved in.
I went back to school with the help of friends and family who are assisting me with tuition. I will graduate at the end of the year with a Masters degree
What are my options now in terms of my adjustment of status through marriage since the marriage is practically over? My employment card was not renewed. The online status for my case has not change since the invitation for interview in 2006.
funny.