My thoughts
I have read all of your comments on this thread. In the beginning of this thread I would have probably said the same things which some of you had mentioned. At this point in our discussion, I think we should consider these points.
1. It all sums up into one thing, do I consider myself, as a person who is capable of surviving in any situation that life has to offer. Has my background (whatever it is) made me a person I want to be? The point is I need to know first who I am.
2. What offers your family the stability, not just financial but also the mental stability? I need to find the balance.
3. Where could I get the optimum benefit of life? I strive for the betterment, don’t I?
4. What is my duty towards the community, towards my country? The best way to ask this question is how do I plan to preserve my values?
If living in India/ USA or in both countries, has made you a better person, then consider yourself lucky that you have the knowledge to compare and choose.
You are matured and have the ability to choose right and wrong and make the right decision in every step of your life but your kids will not have it until they reach that age. What could be the safety zone for that mistake prone age?
In the end, I think that I do have duty to preserve my values because they made me a better person. There are lots of factors involved, my parents, my education, my culture, my community, my values, my teachers and events in my life.
I think just having a “paying education” and “less competition” does not make a person better. I would say, it is in our advancement that we came here, got financial stability (it depends how much do you want?), money is just a way to achieve the goal, it is not the goal itself. (You all know that already)
Sometimes I think we join the wrong competition, I do not favor unnecessary competition of money, power, fame, name. We need to join the real competition of making life better in all aspects. It is a kind of competition where nobody loses.
If you have the answers of these basic questions, then you have already made the decision about staying here or going back. It varies in every case. Someone might give his or her kids a better life perspective by staying here but I will be going back.
These are just my thoughts.
Thanks.