Folks,
lots of thoughts are floating around, looks like it may not matter a lot where you live here or in India.
Who knows what is going to happen in India after 20 years from now, it is a fast change there also. Take care of certain things and leave rest on luck, One can not control everything in the life.
People put together the terms like:
Respect for individual, Love for kids & family, Peace at home (be patient with your spouse), Values, Strong fundamentals, Guidence to kids, life events, good social environment, Freedom to express.....
I would say this is definitely a good idea to let them visit India to know more out there and choose what they feel is better.
Thanks for sharing your personal experiences,
and I believe the resposibilty goes to the parents as well if they do not have stable family environment at home and kids are messed up.
I left the sweet home when I was 10 and next 20+ years are spend studying/working far away from my town & parents, visited home after long intervals. I really did not have very bad life but family affairs are new to me, It was just my own life. The GC issue will be resolved soon hopefully for us, raising the family is the ultimate task, there is so much to learn out there.
Good luck to all. I hope this thread benefit other people as well as it did to me.
Enjoy your life as it is - Good or bad.