saras bhai
No matter what you say trying to console yourself, I can still see the hurt and tears behind your confident veneer. You still think about the GC all the time that is why you spend hours in this forum...Your whole life including your apetite, sex life everything is affected. Honestly tell me how many times have you done in the past month or the past year ? Maybe a couple of times which you aborted because you remembered you do not have your GC
You say we will stay flexible stay liquid etc. etc. What this really means is you will not buy a home nor a good car nothing..what is the use of living in USA then if you still have to live in a shitty apartment.
You are much better off in India where you can do whatever you want. If you wife is working then the situation may, rather will arise where she will not want to go back no matter what and you may want to.
I have seen many Indian couples go thru this dilemma and figth over it. In fact, there was a fight between a couple I know about this in a party after they got drunk, and the guy in a fit of rage called his wife a whore and almost tore her clothes off. ( that she is sleeping around to buy a lexus is well known )
So the wife will take a liking to the USA and you guys will have to stick with her like a jhaat ring.
Saras take my advice and do not become that ring...learn from my experience I have been here for 20+ years and know first hand the problems..You do not want to be in the situation where your wife becomes so mad after money that she ......... Oh well, you know what I mean.....
No matter what you say trying to console yourself, I can still see the hurt and tears behind your confident veneer. You still think about the GC all the time that is why you spend hours in this forum...Your whole life including your apetite, sex life everything is affected. Honestly tell me how many times have you done in the past month or the past year ? Maybe a couple of times which you aborted because you remembered you do not have your GC
You say we will stay flexible stay liquid etc. etc. What this really means is you will not buy a home nor a good car nothing..what is the use of living in USA then if you still have to live in a shitty apartment.
You are much better off in India where you can do whatever you want. If you wife is working then the situation may, rather will arise where she will not want to go back no matter what and you may want to.
I have seen many Indian couples go thru this dilemma and figth over it. In fact, there was a fight between a couple I know about this in a party after they got drunk, and the guy in a fit of rage called his wife a whore and almost tore her clothes off. ( that she is sleeping around to buy a lexus is well known )
So the wife will take a liking to the USA and you guys will have to stick with her like a jhaat ring.
Saras take my advice and do not become that ring...learn from my experience I have been here for 20+ years and know first hand the problems..You do not want to be in the situation where your wife becomes so mad after money that she ......... Oh well, you know what I mean.....